hi, this is sonya. She dances around in over sized t shirts and boxers. she has an addiction to Mike Chang. 
Lauren makes alot of sense.If you want someone to fight for you, then watch them fight for you. Don't just ignore them because it would be cruel of you to just let them fight for you without you taking notice. I told her, though, that sometimes we do it unconsciously. Sometimes when we are blinded by emotions we don't see how much effort people make. We don't see how much people want us to be by their side or how we want them to stay.
And she told me, "The human mind is predictable. When we want something, we don't want to settle for anything else so we turn indifferent to our surroundings" I then replied "So all their efforts go to nothing?" and she simply said "Most of the time."
You start to think. How unfair it all is. But at the same time, you can't do anything but give up. Here's to all of you who fought, who think they fought, and to those who didn't give a damn.
don't lie to yourself
you do it too.